Everyone has a unique perspective of what constitutes
an "energetic meeting." Some may believe that an energetic meeting
must be lively and fast-paced; others may believe that a meeting
is energetic when they leave feeling energized and uplifted.
Regardless of your own personal viewpoint of energetic meetings,
you can increase the likelihood that your meetings will be more
satisfying by encouraging your group to adopt certain procedures
as standard. Here are some key procedures, if you want participation
in your energetic meetings.
Clarify Purpose. A group’s clear purpose
right from its beginning helps all other considerations and actions
to become clearer.
Establish Climate for Sharing. When possible,
arrange for participant comfort. Here are suggestions to consider:
- Provide name tags if the group is large or filled with strangers;
- Place chairs for all to see each other;
- Allow everyone the opportunity to speak;
- Protect the rights of individuals to have dissenting opinions
and to change their opinions.
Explain Ground Rules. Let group members know
what is expected; check their understanding and acceptance of
procedures. Ask if they have questions about certain ground rules
or give them choices that help them to interpret the ground rules.
If the group is new, be certain that the members are involved
in establishing these rules.
Set Goal(s). Develop meeting goals with the
group and refer to them as the meeting progresses. As goals are
reached, be certain that specific individuals and the group as
a whole are acknowledged and applauded.
Reveal Agenda. Announce items to be covered
and the meeting’s structure and process. Written agendas
emphasize meeting focus and hold participants’ attention.
When practical, allow group members to participate in agenda
setting. Agendas distributed in advance allow participants to
think through important items so the meeting is more productive
and meaningful.
Be Task-oriented. Focus on the task and not
on personalities or irrelevant issues. Be careful, though, not
to be so task-oriented that the group overlooks or short-changes
interpersonal relationships.
Listen to All. Acknowledge group members and
their ideas. Not all ideas must be pursued, used, or evaluated,
but all need to be received. Leaders and participants take the
first step in showing that they are listening by giving direct
eye contact to the speaker. Calling participants by name and
referring to the comments they have made are indications that
group members are listening to each other.
Monitor the Energy. If the vitality of the
group wanes, notice and take actions to work with lowered energy.
Sometimes it is appropriate to slow down, suggest silence, or
take a break. Other times, it is appropriate to take an action
that uplifts the energy.
Reflect Together on both Process and Task. Periodically,
talk with each other about perceptions of a meeting or a series
of meetings. Ask participants if they are satisfied or want to
suggest changes. You might from time to time suggest changes
to test a group’s willingness to look at itself. Without
a specific time devoted to reflection, groups — both participants
and leaders — can make assumptions about satisfaction of
others.
Embrace an Intention of Empowerment. Decide
that every meeting is an opportunity for everyone to be empowered.
You can meet the opportunity with vitality and inspiration.
As you conduct and attend meetings, you need to use good sense.
Each group, each meeting is unique. Experiment to find the techniques
and style that produce the most productive results for each meeting.
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